Co-parenting arrangements
Co-parenting can be a wonderful solution for separated parents who want the best for their children. But how do you ensure that agreements are clear and what role does the notary play in this process? At Westvaer, we understand the importance of carefully documenting legal arrangements for co-parenting. We explain what co-parenting arrangements are, how we can assist you and why it is crucial to properly formalize your agreements.
What is a co-parenting arrangement?
A co-parenting arrangement is an agreement where both parents are equally involved in the care and upbringing of their children. This often means that the child spends roughly equal time with both parents. Although co-parenting is not an official legal term, it can be formalized in a divorce settlement or a notarial deed.
The essence of a co-parenting arrangement is good communication and clear agreements. This includes the division of costs, school choices, vacations and extracurricular activities. By formalizing these agreements, you can prevent future misunderstandings and conflicts.
Why formalize co-parenting agreements with a notary?
Formalizing co-parenting agreements provides certainty, clarity and legal protection. It prevents future unilateral changes to the agreements and makes it easier to inform institutions such as schools and healthcare providers.
At Westvaer, we assist you with:
- divorce settlements: all agreements regarding the care, costs and residence of the child are documented;
- notarial deeds: these offer additional legal security;
- advice and guidance: we ensure that your agreements are practical and future-proof.
Benefits of a co-parenting arrangement
A co-parenting arrangement can offer many benefits for both parents and children:
- balanced division of time and care: your child maintains contact with both parents and experiences involvement from both sides;
- clarity and stability: clear agreements help your child feel more secure and supported;
- flexibility and collaboration: both parents play an active role in their child's life, sharing important moments together.
How can a notary help you?
A notary is the ideal party to formalize your co-parenting arrangement. We provide:
- legal certainty: your agreements are made legally binding;
- clarity in complex situations: in case of disputes or uncertainties, we offer advice to both parties;
- support with changes: sometimes a co-parenting arrangement needs to be adjusted. We also provide support in these instances.
For example, if you have a new partner, move to another city or your child's needs change, we ensure that your agreements are updated to reflect the new situation, while maintaining legal certainty.
Frequently asked questions about co-parenting arrangements
Here we answer some frequently asked questions:
Can a co-parenting arrangement be modified?
Yes, but it is not simple. A modification often requires the consent of both parents or a court ruling. The notary can advise you on the best way to formalize these changes.
What happens if one of the parents does not adhere to the agreements?
When agreements are recorded in a notarial deed, they carry additional legal weight. In cases of non-compliance, you can take legal action. We are happy to advise you on the best course of action in such situations.
Is a co-parenting arrangement mandatory in a divorce?
No, co-parenting is not mandatory. It is one of the options for arranging child care after a divorce. What is best depends on your personal situation and the preferences of both parents.
Do you have any other questions? Our experts are ready to assist you.
The challenges of co-parenting
While co-parenting offers many benefits, there are also challenges:
- good communication is essential: maintaining an open dialogue with your ex-partner can sometimes be difficult.
- setting up two households: both parents need to have a fully equipped home for the child.
- shifting environments for the child: constantly moving between two homes can be challenging for some children.
At Westvaer, we help you overcome these challenges by formulating clear and achievable agreements.
Why choose Westvaer?
At Westvaer, we are here to assist you in drafting, modifying or terminating a co-parenting arrangement. Our personal and professional approach ensures that you feel heard and understood while we handle the legal aspects for you.
Do you have questions or want to schedule an appointment? Contact us today. Together, we will ensure that your co-parenting arrangement provides a solid foundation for the future of your family.